your lips are moving but all i hear are sea gulls

this is the third time i have written something, deleted it and started over.  too much swirling around in my brain tonight to make any sense out of much.  so, i will stream my thoughts...

• when you are chatting with someone and you are pushing the conversation in a direction that does not seem to be mutual it is KIND to ask what the other person's expectations are
• if someone is bold and KIND enough to ask this of you, it is very appropriate to answer honestly
• if you are texting, emailing, chatting or any other communication tool and you decide to discontinue the conversation it is KIND to say good bye or at least let the other half know you are drawing the conversation to an end
• has someone ever said something to you that can NOT believe they actually said out loud and you just have to stop for a second and replay the words over in your head and you realize the words are nothing short of stunning - in the most shocking way?  it is always good to think about how your words are going to effect the person you are speaking too. 
• there are never enough hours in the day to get finished our long list of things we think we should do - there are more than enough hours in the day to finish the things we really should be doing
• best friends are good to spend time with
• if you treat every one and every situation as special then nothing truly is
• if your days were numbered and you knew it what would you do different than you are right now
• when you are at wits end are you really or are you at the end of your interest level
• sometimes being patient and waiting takes more energy and strength than fixing what ever it is you are waiting for in the first place - but the lesson would be lost
• who decided bigger was better - - - - i miss the corner grocery store
• what makes a weed a weed and not a plant that i should spend time nurturing
• i would like to make up a word that would indicate feelings deeper, wider, more intense than LOVE - i welcome your input