i made a commitment to myself that i am not going to write out loud because it is between me and me. but i will share this with you: writing is a challenge tonight so bear with me please.
what situations in life throw you the biggest curves? i bet it is not the monumental issue that takes weeks to unravel. nor is it the catastrophe that your family rallies around to combat that will get to you. its the littlest, unexpected things that unravel our worlds.
it is when what we come to know, expect and live every day as our own personal normal, gets all jainked up that causes us the most problem. sometimes it doesn't matter how much we hope for, plan or expect - life takes over and our course is plotted with no regard for what we perceived as reality.
that is not to say we are not the master of our own ships - because we are. but depending on how those we interact with are either mastering or not mastering their own ships, we are often left in their wake. it is not enough to think you know where those around you are going, you simply have to figure out how to balance your thoughts,wishes, dreams and expectations against the tide of life.
so quit waiting for help or answers or direction. it is not coming! it is your responsibility to figure this out. no more excuses. don't just stand there - do something.
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