The more I realize the less I know

Once again I'm overcome with emotion. So much hate. And frustration. And pain. And mistrust.  Not in me!  But out "there". I wish I knew how to bottle those negative emotions and use them to power more love. And tolerance. And acceptance. 

I had two distinct instances today that struck me just how sick and out of balance the world is. One conversation was about being racist. It was clearly something taught at a young age. I just can't imagine getting to the place that judgement based on skin color or nationality would merit such strong distaste for another human being without even knowing the person. 

The second instance was a mature (late 60's early 70's) couple at dinner. She railed on him the entire time. And he snarled back. It seemed to work for the two of them. They were not particularly upset with one another - it was just their way. 

These two scenarios got me to thinking - what would be different if each one led with love?  Would it make any difference in the way the food tasted?  Would she look lovingly at others versus writing them off because they were a different color?  

I just hope I raised my two boys to lead with love. It's a choice.  I love you.